
Rain was in the forecast all week for Saturday. Nothing would have kept us from our twenty mile day, unless our beloved rule enforcers said, “No, you’re not allowed today.”
The memorials were at the top of the week’s list. Armed with an umbrella, rain coat and waterproof clothing we left the hotel on foot like adventurers. Every measure was taken, so disappointment wouldn’t take lead, in a journey surrounded by opportunities to dread every step. Another day of adding images to everyone else’s travel stories. Damp and cold air caused affirming giggles as the first few blocks were defeated. Wet. Wet. Wet.
Rain fell upon those who looked for family names. Vietnam heros one by one and rising as we walked along the site. Many familiar names were read, piecing a name with someone from back home. Heroes. At the pinnacle, the water on my face was indistinguishable between rain drops and tears. The gravity of our country’s loss felt upon my chest. Realizing the Larrys, Garys, and Kennys of mine could have easily been on this wall, yet they weren’t, but these men were…
Prepared to stay
Believing in born ready
Tremendous loss here

The only story I can share of my grandfather, a man my mother never got to know because she was a child when he left for war, was in paperwork from years, an entire life really, of VA hospital stays. “He” continues to escape, traveling hundreds of miles, and writing letters to locate his children. Found again in Kansas searching for his young children. His war afflictions resulted in foster care for children after their mother abandoned them. War wounded, schizophrenic, possibly, yet found daily, while hospitalized, in a small closet writing detailed notes to General MacArthur. A full life given, yet no peace found.
Korean War Vet
Stolen By The Aftermath
Grandfather Wallace
– Learning –
a collection of photos and poems.
Visiting graves often brings us face to face with sadness and senselessness. I’m sorry to learn of your grandfather’s pain. I am glad you visit.
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I’m glad I visited and I feel closer to a man I never knew. I’ve always been strangely comfortable in cemeteries. I love the history and daydreaming about people and the lives they led. Thank you, Dan.
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It’s such a sad story of Grandfather Wallace. My grandfather is buried in Arlington, a veteran of WWI. Buried next to him is a young man killed in the Vietnam War. So sad to visit there.
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John, Arlington was a visit I may never forget. I’m glad I had the opportunity to see for myself and yes, so sad.
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This Korean War Memorial captures painful insights as the men seem to be asking “Why did they send us here to this miserable place ? ” and as a viewer I ask myself ” Why did we send them to this miserable place?” It speaks volumes without a single spoken word…
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Yes, the sculptures were lifelike and I too sensed their dread. Seeing them in raincoats while it was raining on me was humbling. How could I complain about a rainy day ever again. What resonates so clearly through the memorials, and the art needed to create them, was how completely impacted I was by viewing them. Grateful for the service of our military is an understatement. Thank you for your comment, Carl.
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