the usual congratulations we love yous and you two are so happy messages, suddenly end when it isn’t a wedding anniversary anymore no one reminded me today I’ve never felt so forgotten
I hear you, my sensitive friend. I’ve had more than a decade of forgotten anniversaries. Doesn’t get any easier, but they say Time heals all wounds — and I’m counting on that. For you, too!
Painful but better faced and acknowledged than buried, denied and seeding an early heart attack. It was burying his emotions that caused my father to die in his 50s.
“Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
And could you keep in your heart the miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy;
And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields.
And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.”
– Kahil Gibran, The Prophet.
Ben, I’m so sorry you lost your father so young. Stress does that to many men. Being able to share and talk about things helps.
Thank you for sharing The Prophet with me…perfect reading. ♡
I lost both my parents when I was very young although they continued to breathe for years and we remained on cordial terms until they passed.
“Cordial (adj.)
– a. Warm and sincere; friendly.
– b. Polite and respectful; formally pleasant.”
(https://www.thefreedictionary.com/cordial)
I assumed you knew “The Prophet”. Unless I am misreading your comment (It has been known 🙂 ) my assumption was faulty. If that is so then may I heartily recommend it. I am sure you would love it. OTOH if I *am* misreading your comment (It has been known 🙂 ) please allow me to apologise.
I do know it and enjoyed it very much. Please don’t worry about offending me or misreading me. I’ve been rather short with my words as of late. I’m sorry. There is so much wisdom in the words you share. I need to stop and focus on more of what I need.
I always figured that there would be someone (thinking family I suppose) who would get it and still call to say “I love you”. Singular. I was wrong. Being wrong typically doesn’t bug me. Oh well
I was taken back by how quiet the day was. I suppose there isn’t much anyone knows to say. I love you and proud of your strength would be one option. Anyway, it takes a lot to shock me. I shocked myself Tuesday.
Thank you, C
Feeling lots of empathy for you, It’s nice to be reminded and remembered. https://ivors20.wordpress.com/2017/09/09/some-time-now/
I took some flowers to Carole today, no special date or reason, but everyday with her was a special day… And Audrey you are special too.
I hear you, my sensitive friend. I’ve had more than a decade of forgotten anniversaries. Doesn’t get any easier, but they say Time heals all wounds — and I’m counting on that. For you, too!
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Healing at the pace our souls can handle, I guess. Thank you, Ma’am. Kinda hate you’ve experienced the pain of it all. Hugs.
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Sigh. Yes, but it makes me more empathetic, I guess. xx
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I can assure you with certainty… you are “never” forgotten.
Perhaps it should become a day to celebrate peace of mind!
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You bring me peace, Michael. Thank you for sitting near.
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So let me say, “Happy Wednesday.” Wednesday is still here and you are not forgotten.
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Surrounded by some pretty great souls, that’s for sure. Thanks, Butch.
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Ha ha ha
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You pack so much emotion in so few words. I wish they weren’t so sad.
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Gosh, that’s a lovely thing to say, Dan. Thank you.
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You’re welcome 🙂
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Painful but better faced and acknowledged than buried, denied and seeding an early heart attack. It was burying his emotions that caused my father to die in his 50s.
“Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
And could you keep in your heart the miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy;
And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields.
And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.”
– Kahil Gibran, The Prophet.
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Oops. That should have read:
It was burying his emotions that caused my father to die in his 50s.
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Ben, I’m so sorry you lost your father so young. Stress does that to many men. Being able to share and talk about things helps.
Thank you for sharing The Prophet with me…perfect reading. ♡
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I lost both my parents when I was very young although they continued to breathe for years and we remained on cordial terms until they passed.
“Cordial (adj.)
– a. Warm and sincere; friendly.
– b. Polite and respectful; formally pleasant.”
(https://www.thefreedictionary.com/cordial)
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Oh, Ben…I suppose I understand to some degree. I’m sad over the reality of the distance between y’all.
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No matter. 🙂 Without my past my present would not have become. My experiences are what made me who I am.
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I assumed you knew “The Prophet”. Unless I am misreading your comment (It has been known 🙂 ) my assumption was faulty. If that is so then may I heartily recommend it. I am sure you would love it. OTOH if I *am* misreading your comment (It has been known 🙂 ) please allow me to apologise.
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I do know it and enjoyed it very much. Please don’t worry about offending me or misreading me. I’ve been rather short with my words as of late. I’m sorry. There is so much wisdom in the words you share. I need to stop and focus on more of what I need.
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No apology required. 🙂
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I always figured that there would be someone (thinking family I suppose) who would get it and still call to say “I love you”. Singular. I was wrong. Being wrong typically doesn’t bug me. Oh well
“Sad not mad” ma’am.
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I was taken back by how quiet the day was. I suppose there isn’t much anyone knows to say. I love you and proud of your strength would be one option. Anyway, it takes a lot to shock me. I shocked myself Tuesday.
Thank you, C
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You are welcome ma’am.
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You did all you could but would you celebrate what it had become? My heart is with you, Audrey. It hurts when it doesn’t last.
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No, I’ve no interest in celebrating what it had become. Just suprised at the overall silence of the day. Thanks, Shari
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Feeling lots of empathy for you, It’s nice to be reminded and remembered.
https://ivors20.wordpress.com/2017/09/09/some-time-now/
I took some flowers to Carole today, no special date or reason, but everyday with her was a special day… And Audrey you are special too.
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Thank you for sharing your poem, Ivor. I appreciate the kind thoughts, too.
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Aawwww 😪😭
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It’ll be okay 🙂
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Empathizing and sending a hug… 💙
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Means a lot, Friend ♡
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this is excellent Audrey.. a favourite, for sure
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Anthony, thank you for reading along.
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